I don't think I've recovered yet from the madness that was the 2008 Romantic Times convention. I shudder to think of how tired I'd be if I'd had to add long distance travel into the mix.
The thing that surprised me the most was the number of (for lack of a better word) prim-looking ladies who picked up the brochures I'd done to pimp our Dragon's Disciple world. I made it a point to let them know it was erotic urban fantasy featuring male/male pairings and while a couple went "Oh," and put the flyer back the majority simply nodded, tucked the promo into their bags and went on their way.
*punches fist in air* Open-minded grandmotherly types unite!