I love finding advice from other writers. I don't listen to everyone because I'm stubborn and like to do things my way but I enjoy learning from old hands. Writing is hard and it drives you crazy sometimes (all the time). So I'll share my favorite bit of advice from an old m/m goodie :)
"First rule: Stop digging. Yeah, what you're doing right there, bitching about how you can't write. Stop that. The only way to climb out is... just climb."